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10 Signs of a Controlling Relationship and How to Deal With it

We are all products of our conditioning. Our beliefs, experiences and knowledge dictate the way we interact with other people and our own selves. It is common for some people to develop a manipulative or controlling personality owing to their deep seated insecurities and fears. If you happen to be in a relationship with such […]


Boyfriend Still Keeps In Touch With His Ex And I Hate That

Question by Mavelle Recently, I saw a picture of my boyfriend and his ex on a birthday celebration of the girl’s nephew. When I saw their picture, I asked him right away if they have a relationship or they got back together, but he repeatedly denied that they have something in between. I kept on […]


Should I Tell Boyfriend About My Wild Past?

Question asked by Ally – So this guy and I meet about a month ago and Yes maybe the quickest thing that would ever happen in the history of my life but “I just feel it” this is the last man I really think I will ever date. He and I have already brought up […]

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My Boyfriend Told Me That He Needs Time To Think!

Question asked by Lauren: I’ve been dating a man for 2 months, he’s quite deep but buries his head in the mud when it comes to his problems or emotions. He’s said that he wants a long term relationship, and that we’re basically soulmates and it’s the real thing between us. We live a couple […]


How Do I Know if My Boyfriend Really Loves Me?

There might come a point in your relationship when you start wondering if your partner really loves you anymore the way he used to. You might also wonder if there was love to start with. Thoughts like these might come up in the middle of the night or during a dull Sunday afternoon and they […]


How To Know If A Man Is Using You? 5 Signs That He Is!

They say women have a knack for intuition, but when it comes to their love interest they do get blinded. It is quite common for some women to get into abusive relationships mostly because they are low on self esteem or in need of approval, they fail to see that their boyfriend or partner does […]


5 Signs That Your Boyfriend Is Avoiding You (And Wants to Break Up)

When a relationship enters a lean patch, one of the partners starts living in denial while the other lives in “avoidance”. Sometimes both the partners simply continue existing in denial even when they know deep down that the relationship is over. So if your boyfriend is avoiding you, and you fail to catch onto the […]


What Does It Mean When A Guy Says He Needs Time?

Some intimate relationships are harmonious and they move into different phases with ease. There is the initial dating phase which then migrates to a committed relationship phase which eventually matures into the final bonding of a marriage. This is of course the ideal situation. Not all relationships work so smoothly. The issue of commitment in […]

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7 Signs That Your Boyfriend Is Lying To You

Can you catch a guy lying to you? It depends on how “savvy” the guy is, but in most cases it’s a cinch. Of course, if you are stuck with a “habitual” liar, your relationship is not going to last the course. Innocent lies are okay, every now and then, but what you have to […]


How To Tell If A Man Is A Player?

How do you know when a man only wants to have sex with you? How would that man behave towards you; what might that man tell you versus a man who is really interested in a real relationship? In other words, how to tell if a man is a player? – Question asked by Julia […]