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Ok, so I've been hung up over the same guy for the last two years. neither of us have dated anyone else. His last girlfriend, from years before, is now his best friend. He hasn't dated anyone during his college career.
Whenever any guy approaches me I become a little careful. In an urge to not look needy or desperate I start talking & behaving with the person in a friendly way and I think it does not show him that I also have an attraction for him. How do I show a man that I am interested?
There is a guy who is with me in the english class, I'm really attracted to him but I don't know if he likes me back or not. I think he is a shy guy and I'm shy girl I don't know what to do. How do shy guys act around a girl they like and how do I approach him?
I was wondering if you have any advice on things I can do to show him that distance doesn't matter when it comes to love?
I miss him and wish he was here every day, I just want him to know that.
Me and my boyfriend really love each other and HE's the one who started talking about marriage. He said this year, then the other, now the next and I don't know why!! Is there a way to approach him about this so that he feels comfortable?
How do I know if my boyfriend will ever want to marry me? He says he doesn't care about marriage, but it is so important to me!
There is this guy at my church that I really like but, I am not sure how he feels about me. I think he is a shy guy because he doesn't speak to any one unless spoken to.
I sent him a letter just to apologise for how I was to him that night before breaking up as I know myself I was unreasonable, but no response from him. I was crazy about him and would love if we could work things out. Is there any hope for us? How do I get back together with my boyfriend?
So, my question is, is it wrong to even go home with someone you just met even if you don't have sex? Will he still view you as easy or un-classy?
How do you respond to a guy when they were once a friend, but now don't want to talk to you anymore? Does trying to fix the relationship actually make it worse?
Okay so my boyfriend sometimes talks to his ex girlfriend and some other girls like one girl he met at his friends house once. I just feel like when they talk it causes conflict in our relationship. Also this other girl texts him a ton.
We enjoy being together and he has always treated me like a lady. Now all of the sudden, he tells me he needs time to think and figure things out and that he’s really confused.
I have the same problem with my boyfriend but he wasn't like this from the beginning. He only started being sarcastic when he got confortable after we exchanged the I love you's.
I can't make him talk to me. He won't answer and I know it might be months or years before he may contact me. Of course, I hope I will be living a full life with a man who will love me the way I should be loved by then.
The issue is that I am abstinent and am committed to being so until I am married. However, it is extremely frustrating for him that we are not having sex. He believes that sex is necessary for intimacy and he feels like we are in "relationship lite" because of the lack of sex.
How will I know if we'll ever be in a relationship? Right now, i'm "kinda" with a man I've dated before. We once dated for a month, nothing serious, then about a year later, we got back together and remained so for around 7 months.
I have a question which I hope you guys will answer. Do men dislike short girls? I know it's a silly question but I always wonder about that and it gives me low self-esteem because I´m always thinking about my height.
I am currently in a long distance relationship. We are about 7 hours away from each other. What should I do to keep my relationship healthy and work in long term?
I had a wild early 20's. What should a girl do? Do I just leave the wild times behind and not tell him or do I tell him and let him form his own opionions of me and possibly face him maybe throwing this away?
My husband says that because I didn't criticise him and was too supportive with him, he failed to see how he was jeopardising his career. He says it's unattractive for a woman to tolerate a man who's not trying to improve himself. Where did I go wrong?
I have been talking and seeing a guy for about 3 months. I like him a lot and he said he is interested in me as well. He asked me if I wanted to take it to the next level. I replied that I didn't know him very well and wasn't ready to take it to the next level, (he wanted to have sex). Since then he is not as talkative as he was before.
How do you know when a man only wants to have sex with you?
How would that man behave towards you; what might that man tell you versus a man who is really interested in a real relationship?
My boyfriend can be very loving and is very playful but his sarcastic comments go too far. I've talked to him about this calmly and told him that it hurts my feelings but I get the same "You're too sensitive. I'm just kidding" answer every time.
I've tried everything I know to show him that I not only love but admire him and the two people I saw was a grave lack of judgment. He's sceptical and hurt, is there any hope that we have a future together or will he always hold these two months against me?
I've been dating a man for 2 months, he's quite deep but buries his head in the mud when it comes to his problems or emotions. He's now told me that he needs time to think and to get his head straight. I'm so confused!
Can you give me some tips on how to make a long distance relationship work?
It was eye contact and deep attraction that led us to a night together but he has a girlfriend which I already knew about.I still catch him looking at me and when we now make eye contact he smiles but looks away. I have strong feelings for him but does he feel the same?
There is this guy in my office who is senior to me and so it's pretty obvious that he cannot talk to me very directly. But he kind of keeps a note on me, appreciates my work, stares at me when I am not looking.
I was talking to a guy for about 5 months but he never asked me out. We acted like a couple at times but he just stopped talking to me out of the nowhere! Why doesn't he talk to me anymore?
After a fight, my boyfriend said we should "let things lie" and "be calm", and he hasn't talked to me in 3 days. I have tried talking to him but he doesn't answer or pick up the phone, what can I do? Are we breaking up?
Okay I am dating this guy that I really love, but he is two inches shorter than me and he doesn't like it. And I am a heel person. Should I talk to him about the height difference?
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months. I kinda feel ready to have sex, but we want to be ready together. What should I do? He isn't ready yet so he says.
Are there some easy ways to let a guy know you like them without explicitly saying "I Like You"? In other words, what are some subtle hints I could give to let a guy know I'm interested without being too obvious? How do you know that a girl likes you?
If a man is very cocky, big headed, arrogant and self centered when he is young is this something that may change as he matures, or is this really who he is?
I met this guy 2 years ago and we ever liked each other. He's 4 years older than me. However he was known to be a cheater. No matter how often he says how much he loves me, I'm still in doubt. Does he really love me or is his love fake? Can I trust him?
I do everything for my boy friend, I give him money, sex whenever, call him,..I mean absolutely do everything.. but it seems
like it's not enough for him. Like he still goes off talks and try's to see other girls. why does the guy try to talk or hangout with another girl?
Why doesn't the guy never break up with you
even though he knows he wants to? And why do some guys call an try to hangout
with girls you already know and you hang out with? When the guy already knows you talk with
those girls and he knows that their going to tell me.
I really thought I was falling for him. He was the perfect gentleman. We hit it off well but then I think I scared him. I told him I was falling for him. He said it was too soon for me to think that and then he started acting distant from me.
All of my friends keep telling me to kiss my boyfriend, but we're both too shy. What should I do to initiate the first kiss?
I'm in a relationship with a guy whom I knew was a playboy before I started dating him along the line he told me he had left all of them for me only to find out last week that he even had new ones added to the old girlfriends. I confronted him and his reply was 'I knew who he was before I accepted to date him' what do I do?
How long should my boyfriend and I wait to get intimate? He says he is in love with me and I am completely in love with him too, but would it be safe for us to share that experience? Would it be wrong to have sex if we both trust each other and want to?
My boyfriend split up with me saying that he wasn't ready for a serious relationship. Since then he's been basically trying to have as many girls as he can, and I feel he just used me to 'practice on'.
I think I'm in love with a guy. Met at work over a year ago - he flirted with me everyday, we got on well, laughed together. He is married.
My Ex-boyfriend says it wouldn't bother him at all if I date his brother. Could that be true, or was he just being cool?
Can men tell if a woman is a virgin? Is it obvious to them?
My boyfriend is a successful business man, not well educated but a rough diamond..My problem with him is that he never apologises - not that he has ever done anything really bad, but just if he says something a bit selfish or hurtful.
I really like this guy and started flirting with him and he seemed to flirt back but then he started to seem to avoid me. Is there any hope that he is even slightly interested?
I am just curious as to why it's become so acceptable for men to look at porn whilst in a relationship, and what are your views on this? I know women look at porn to, but we all know not nearly as many women do as men.
Obviously the first date is not the right time if you are interested in having him respect you. But what is the appropriate length of time?
If you are in a serious relationship with a man and he has inappropriate sexual demands should you allow them?
How do I ask him to wait without offending his feelings or making him feel that I do not love him?
My boyfriend forgot my birthday and I am feeling extremely down. Why did this happen? What should I do?
I met my boyfriend when he was a freshman and when I was a sophomore in high school. Our friends set us up and 2 weeks later it was over because of their constant involvement.
My bf and I have a very strong relationship. Its been 9 months ever since we are in the relation. We used to have sex after every now and then almost twice a week or sometimes thrice a week and now recently he went to London for studies.
What does it mean when a guy friend of five years has recently got upset when you asked him to pass a birthday gift to another guy work who shares his workplace?
My boyfriend and I started out dating off and on because he was too afraid to commit…So I never pushed him to do anything he didn’t want to do and he finally decided he could commit to me about two months ago.
So there’s a guy I’ve known for about 5 months, and I really like him. He’s wicked shy, and doesn’t talk to a lot of people. On this website, it said if a confident guy becomes very shy around you, he likes you. Well this guy is very shy, but becomes very confident around me.
I've liked the same guy for about a year now but have yet to make a move. When we first met he was rather shy.