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Are Guys Comfortable With Their Wife Earning More Than Them?
Not at all, nil, nada, zero, no ways.Guys don’t like their wife earning more than them and they never will no matter what. There is a good quality of male chauvinism in most of the guys and that would never allow them to be comfortable with the fact that their pay check contains a digit which is smaller than the one received by their wife. Sometimes it can’t be helped if the wife earns a lot more than the husband because of the industry that she is employed in. Under these circumstances if the guy is willing to swallow the sick feeling while would arise in him every now and then, well then its okay but that would be rare.
You can be rest assured that guy would feel a complex of sorts
He would try to cover it up in one way or other by bringing a facet to himself which helps him get over the ego shrinkage. If the guy ends up giving in to destructive behaviour like alcoholism or even adultery in order to rev up his ego well its not going to be a pleasant scene at all. The relationship would eventually break up for good. Some guys are of course very mature about the fact that in today’s times it is extremely childish to expect that your wife should earn less than you, more because of the varied pay package across the industry.It’s not the girls fault at all if she is earning more
That’s understandable unless she uses it as an ego hurting tool on the guy whenever there is a fight; now that’s a big mistake. Guys hate an ego bashing, point blank it’s the universal truth. It’s always better not to hurt a guy’s ego than to get your point across. Girls are more understanding and adjusting as a norm and I am sure that’s really sweet of them. Don’t ever take a dig at a guy’s ego either about the size of his dick or the size of his paycheck, if you want the relationship to continue. Guys usually heal an injured ego by proving their manliness through activities like boozing, speeding, fighting, shouting or worse by having an extra martial affair just to get a one up on their wife.So what do you do if you are earning more than your guy?
Not much really, if you try to talk to him about it, it’s just going to fuel his anger because guys feel like they are getting patronized whenever there is a consolation talk. You could praise his work a lot and let him know that you are very proud of him, basically the ego oiling talk, that helps. Never talk about your increased responsibilities since it would be taken as an attempt at showing superiority.Guys like being superior in a relationship. All girls who have been successful in maintaining long term relationship know of this secret, as long as you make the guy feel superior he will never feel the need to get insecure about anything in the relationship. That’s the secret which will work in this case too; though how you make it work will depend completely on your ingenuity.
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