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Do Men Think About Sex All the Time?
No, they also think about sports, food, bills and work. But of course most men have prominent sex drives owing largely to the hormone "testosterone" that ranges through their body. There is a tendency among men to have "sexual" thoughts at the drop of a hat because their brains are wired up for "procreation".Having constant thoughts of sex has nothing to do with a lack of character or maturity. In men "thinking" about sex happens almost unconsciously especially during their younger days, some even turn out of be the proverbial "naughty" old man.
The male mind is wired for sex
Genetically the male brain is conditioned to seek "mating" as much as possible, of course reason and ethics keep these impulses in control. The codes of morality set up by any civilized society, the inherent voice of virtue and the principles they grow by keeps most men from turning into sex offenders but almost all men tend to "think" of sex a good portion of their living day. There is no harm in thinking of course.You just need to look at the amount of porn out on the internet these days and you get an idea of how well sex sells, who are these websites primarily catering to? The sex driven male mind. Tons of subscriptions pour into porn websites from men seeking visual pleasure. Actually all men are highly visual creatures, this is because their forefathers were hunters who had to be extremely "visual" in order to survive. So men love "watching" and they have an attraction for smooth curves, blame it on the genes.
In fact most men just go about their day totally unconscious of the many "sexual" thoughts that arise in their head. Sometimes they look at a curvy girl and have thoughts like "wow she’s hot" or "love to be in bed with her", almost unconsciously without even realizing that this reaction happened. It’s also true that men keep undress women in their mind almost unconsciously too, without any real intention, it just happens.
Some men feel guilty of their sexuality
A good amount of male population actually feels guilty about their sex drive. It’s not uncommon for a man to feel "depraved" for having sexual thoughts so constantly. What they don’t realize is that it happens on automaton, absolutely on it’s own without any real intention.Even when men get their share of sex from their girlfriend or wife, it does not stop them from ogling at other women all the time. This again happens unconsciously. Many men tend to watch porn irrespective of whether they are getting sex in real life, this is to satisfy their craving for regular visual stimulation. This leads to excess fantasizing and increased sexual thinking, so it’s like a vicious cycle. Men do feel helpless about their sexual excesses, many feel terribly guilty.
It’s not uncommon for men to turn to spirituality or therapy out of the need to feel "good" about themselves. In a society where sex is held as a sinful, though it may have subtle under tones, it’s quite obvious that a man will feel guilty about his sexuality or sexual craving. Not all men have such complexes though.
In conclusion, sex holds a very prominent position in the minds of men, there is no denying this fact. Mostly this is due to conditioning and genes, though it may look depraved or animalistic externally. It may not be true but statistics have shown that many men grow out of their sex drive after the age of 35 when their career starts to take a more important position in their life, what a relief!
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