What To Do To Stop Fighting With Your Boyfriend

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Top 10 Tips to Avoid Fighting with Your Boyfriend (A guy’s perspective)

Alright here goes.. keep these points in mind and you will be amazed with the results:

Don’t say “nothing” when I ask “what’s wrong”?

If he is asking what’s wrong well it’s because he can sense that there is something wrong. Guys are not too stupid at guessing the ambience of a girl’s mind, at-least when they have grown to know a girl pretty well. If you reply back saying “nothing” well a guy has a reason to feel pissed off. A guy would usually appreciate a logical response like a decent explanation as to why you are behaving this way.

Don’t be late when I am waiting outside your house

This is a classic. I’ve seen guys waiting outside a girl’s house in their car for more than half an hour while the girl gets dressed up. Of course there can be cases when the delay can’t be avoided but we guys find it really annoying to wait. Let me get this straight “We Hate Waiting”, it kills us. We don’t want to listen to reasons why you were late on top of waiting for half hour, now that’s like getting killed twice.

Don’t keep nagging me about why I should quit smoking

Again a total classic. How many times have you found a guy sitting in irritation while the girl is enlisting all the health benefits of quitting or worse explaining all the ill effects of smoking? We guys know what we are doing, smoking kills yeah we know that but we like smoking nevertheless can’t help it. I know the girl is concerned genuinely but guys just find it irritating to the core. A better way to to show your concern is to simply slip a website like this that advocates why one should quit smoking.

Don’t ever nag about my hair style EVER

This is a boiler. We guys are very touchy about our hairstyle. We love our hair and are insecure about it as it were. We don’t want to hear wise cracks about it. I know a girl might find it embarrassing to be out with a guy who is sporting a totally weird hairstyle but then, can’t help it. Pointing it out is only going to make a guy fume.

Don’t argue when I am hungry

Guys reach a mental state nearing insanity when they are hungry. We become short tempered, moody and extremely impatient when we feel the demand for food inside, which might be almost too frequent to count. Definitely not the right time to argue about anything. If you are wise you will just keep quite and waiting for the guy to done with his eating.

Don’t bring your kitty party home

This is after marriage. A guy hates being stuck in the house with a room full of shrieking women talking about god knows what. The result would be a fight at night. Guys love their home being as less noisy as possible. We are a little touchy about shrill noises, you get the point right?

Don’t go around talking to other guys when I am with you

This is a killer. I mean its common sense really that we guys don’t like sharing our girl with other guys even for a matter of a second especially in a social gathering kind of a situation. It is hurting to the ego for God’s sake. I am sure all the guys you are talking to are “just friends” but I hate it anyway. Some guys may not be blunt about it, but take all guys are possessive about their girls.

Don’t talk to the mobile phone while we are on a date

If there’s one thing most of us guys find annoying it this persistent habit of talking over the mobile phone especially during dinner dates. Yeah it’s possible that the call is important, most of the times its not, but then like I said before guys don’t like waiting. They cannot be sitting staring around the restaurant while their girl is talking over the phone.

Don’t compare me with Mr. Ideal

“You should try being more like him” we guys hate that. We are unique in the way we are and don’t ever want to change anything about us. We have grown to like ourselves the way we are. In any case the grass always looks greener on the neighbor’s porch.

Don’t bring your mother over for goodness sake

We guys hate being around our mother-in-law, lots of us just pretend to like them believe me on that. I mean of course there are exceptions to the norm and I am sure there are good mother-in-laws out there for sure, but most of them are just nag machines as far as the guy is concerned. There is nothing worse than hearing the mother-in-law’s version of what the perfect husband should be.

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