How to Know if a Shy Guy Likes You?

Some men are very overt in their approach and you will know when they mean business. Then there are the shy guys who are extremely conscious of their feelings for you but they wonít let out directly. If you are interested in a shy guy and you want to know if he is as interested in you, then you will have to observe for subtle signs that indicate he likes you.

Many girls who have love interest in a man they know to be shy have these questions - How do shy guys act around a girl they like? How to know if a shy guy likes you? And how to deal with shy guys? In this article we seek to answer these questions in the best possible manner.

Signs a Shy Guy Likes You

All shy guys are faced with one dilemma Ė to let know or to not let know Ė when it comes to their love interest. They usually never let you know directly unless you indicate your interest first and they donít catch on to your hints very quickly so you have to be direct. Here are some signs that a shy guy likes you.

He Avoids Direct Eye Contact

If a shy guy is in love with you, heís gonna talk through his eyes but not directly. Shy guys stare if they like you, thatís a fact, but they are quick to avoid your eye contact if you gaze in their direction.

They just canít maintain eye contact for more than a second and they will either look down or sideways. He would stare almost unconsciously at you but when he sees you looking at him he will become very self conscious and avert his glace. He might give you a polite smile if you catch him staring but he will look away while doing so.

He Blushes When You Talk to Him

You can see a pink flush on his cheeks if you flirt with him or get close to him or even if you just have a casual conversation. Shy guys are overly sensitive and self conscious, heís been thinking or even obsessing about you in his mind and when you talk to him his natural shyness causes him to blush.

He Becomes Self Conscious When You are Around

If you see him touching up his hair, scratching his face, twirling his fingers or getting fidgety whenever you are around, it would indicate that he has become very self conscious in your presence. This is definite sign of a shy guy liking you.

He Stammers While Talking to You

How to know if a shy guy likes you? Just talk to him and you will know. Just start a casual conversation and see how he reacts to you. If he stammers back a reply, while looking all around the room but at you, then you know he has an intense crush going.

He Gets Your Number from Your Friends and Calls You Up

It is quite natural for a shy guy to never ask your number directly. If heís going crazy in his love for you, he might muster the courage to get your number from your friends, or from some other source, and call you up on some pretext (usually a pretty lame one). He might even chat with you on a messaging utility like facebook, twitter, msn or yahoo because itís easier for him than a direct interaction initially.

He is Very Sensitive to Your Touch

If you happen to touch him playfully, or just casually, he might respond as if a he got an electric shock. You will see his face go all pink, he might suddenly move away or just get overly self conscious. It just shows your touch means a lot to him.

He Offers to Help You With Your Work

This might be one way he will try to approach you. He will offer to help you with your work or offer to drop you home. This is a big step for a shy guy and you should take it as a definite sign that he likes you and is in love with you.

So these are the common signs when a shy guy likes you. It might be a little frustrating to see that he is not being direct in expressing his interest but this is how shy guys act around a girl they like.





Your Comments

Nila said..
Wow, this is spot on. I have a huge crush on this guy and I know that he is a very shy person. He doesn't talk much with anyone, but his behaviour towards me has always been different. Now I know for sure that he likes me too!

Mahmoud said..
I'am one of those guys, I always hear that girls don't like shy guys. I hope it's not true.

Vicky said..
I LOVE shy guys! They are so much more special than typical guys :)

Sousou said..
I like a shy guy too, but it has been 2 months now since I saw for the first time, and nothing happend yet. But the signs above are there which is good; but I am tired of waiting!