First of all it’s important to understand that there’s no way of physically knowing that he’s still a virgin – guys don’t have anything like a hymen which can be broken during intercourse. So you will have to go by your intuition and gut instinct when it comes to determining if your present boyfriend is a virgin.
Are there any common signs that suggest he is a virgin? The answer will be a yes and a no. Yes there are certain instinctual behaviors that a virgin guy would exhibit but it’s not foolproof, moreover a lot of guys can just pretend at being/not being a virgin too.
Signs a Guy is a Virgin
In this article we suggest a few signs that tell you if a guy is a virgin. Here’s what you look for.
1.) He is Very Shy About Touching You
This is not a definitive sign but it can well be an indication that the guy is a virgin. Men who have had intercourse at least once would not be so shy of touching a girl.
In fact shyness towards the opposite sex decidedly reduces in men who have been intimate before. But can you tell if a guy is a virgin just because he is shy about being intimate? Not really but it’s a strong sign. So if a guy is shy about touching you, especially on your intimate body parts, it does hint at him being a virgin.
2.) He is Very Uncertain While Getting Physically Intimate
If he is quite clueless about how to react to your advances then there is a possibility that it might well be his first time.
Most guys who are not virgins would just need a hint to start tearing at your clothes – they have done this before and their experience helps condition their mind. Virgin guys would be very circumspect about how to go about getting intimate. If you are not a virgin, you will find the virgin guy especially clueless.
3.) He Kisses Awkwardly
Some guys are bad kissers but that does not mean they are virgins. Similarly, some guys are great kissers and could still really be virgins. There is a huge probability that he has made out a lot but for whatever reasons has not gone any further.
But if a guy kisses awkwardly, in a very shy or inhibited manner, it could be because of his lack of experience.
Kissing takes practice and people get good at it with experience. Even the bad kissers are not clumsy or awkward; they just go at it all wrong.
4.) He Asks for Permission While Making Love
Typically a virgin guy is pretty unsure of what his moves ought to be. Being physically intimate is new territory for him. Even if he has watched several adult movies, the first real experience is bound to be overwhelming for a guy.
He is likely to fumble around a lot and there is a likelihood that he will ask for permission before touching you or kissing you intimately. He is also bound to be confused about when to enter you. If he looks like a lost sheep, you can take it as a strong hint that it’s his first experience.
5.) He Has a Very Quick Orgasm
If it’s his first intimate experience, there is a possibility that he might climax quickly or in some cases might not climax at all.
The first experience is always a nervous one for a guy because he will be constantly thinking about how he is performing. He could get aroused at the smallest act of intimacy on your part causing him to come to an orgasm quickly. And in some cases he might not be aroused at all and/or have difficulty climaxing because of his anxiety.
Guys with experience are more sensitized to their arousal and can control themselves a lot better.
Using these signs you can tell if a guy is a virgin with relative surety, but of course there are no guarantees. If you see a guy exhibiting these behaviors when you get intimate, you should ask him if it’s his first experience and make it as comfortable for him as possible.