How to Tell if a Guy is a Virgin?

First of all itís important to understand that thereís no way of physically knowing that heís still a virgin Ė guys donít have anything like a hymen which can be broken during intercourse. So you will have to go by your intuition and gut instinct when it comes to determining if your present boyfriend is a virgin.

Are there any common signs that suggest he is a virgin? The answer will be a yes and a no. Yes there are certain instinctual behaviors that a virgin guy would exhibit but itís not foolproof, moreover a lot of guys can just pretend at being a virgin too.

Signs a Guy is a Virgin

In this article we suggest a few signs that tell you if a guy is a virgin. Hereís what you look for.

He is Very Shy About Touching You

This is not a definitive sign but it can well be an indication that the guy is a virgin. Men who have had intercourse at least once would not be so shy of touching a girl. In fact shyness towards the opposite sex decidedly reduces in men who have been in intimate before. But can you tell if a guy is a virgin just because he is shy about being intimate? Not really but itís a strong sign. So if a guy is shy about touching you, especially at the intimate body parts, it does hint at this being a virgin.

He is Very Uncertain While Getting Physically Intimate

If he is quite clueless about how to react to your advances then there is a possibility that it might well be his first time. Most guys who are not virgins would just need a hint to start tearing at your clothes Ė they have done this before and their experience helps condition their mind. Virgin guys would be very circumspect about how to go about getting intimate. If you are not a virgin, you will find the virgin guy especially clueless.

He Kisses Awkwardly

Some guys are bad kissers but that does not mean they are virgins. But if a guy kisses awkwardly, in a very shy or inhibited manner, itís almost a sure sign that he is a virgin. If a guy is pretty good at kissing you can be sure that he is not a virgin no matter what he says. Kissing takes practice and people get good at it with experience. Even the bad kissers are not clumsy or awkward; they just go at it all wrong. Another aspect to look out for is whether he closes his eyes while kissing, most virgins tend to do that a lot.

He Asks for Permission While Making Love

Typically a virgin guy is pretty unsure of what his moves ought to be. Being physically intimate is new territory for him. Even if he has watched several adult movies, the first real experience is bound to be overwhelming for a guy. He is likely to fumble around a lot and he will ask for permission before touching you or kissing you intimately. He is also bound to be confused about when to enter you. If he looks like a lost sheep, though he may pretend as if he is very confident about what heís doing, then you know that itís his first experience.

He Has a Very Quick Orgasm

If itís his first intimate experience in love making, he is sure to orgasm quickly. Some virgin guys tend to ejaculate even before entering or as soon as they enter. The first experience is always a nervous one for a guy because he will be constantly thinking about how he is performing. Moreover he will get aroused at the smallest act of intimacy on your part causing him to come to an orgasm quickly. Guys with experience are more sensitized to their arousal and can control themselves a lot better.

Using these signs you can tell if a guy is a virgin with relative surety, but of course there are no guarantees. If you see a guy exhibiting these behaviors when you get intimate, you should ask him if itís his first experience and make it as comfortable for him as possible.

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