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Why Does My Husband Look at Other Women and Denies It?

In any relationship there is bound to be a sense of possessiveness. It is natural for jealousy to arise as result of this tendency to want to possess, or take complete ownership, of the person we are in relationship with. Many women complain that their husband or boyfriend has this annoying habit of staring at, or checking out, other women even when he is in their company. This can be annoying and can lead of a sense of feeling inferior or you might also start doubting the loyalty of your husband.

Ignorance is not always bliss. Knowledge of male behavior can help you understand them better which in turn will allow you some peace of mind. So if you are asking – why does my husband look at other women and denies it when I ask him? - and if this aspect of his behavior is getting to your nerves, then you need to understand some basic male behavior patters. This article is written with the purpose of providing you with this insight.

These are the reasons why your husband looks at other women and denies it when you interrogate him.

Men are highly visual beings – The male brain is wired to be visual because men have been hunters since the beginning of time. The primitive man was expected to hunt for a living and his primary weapon was his vision or eye sight. The brain of a man is stimulated by images much more than the brain of a woman. If there is anything visually interesting in the vicinity of his vision, he will look – this behavior is wired in him subconsciously. So if a woman comes in the range of his vision and she has attractive looks about her, then your husband is bound to watch her.

Men are attracted to curvaceous bodies – This is nothing personal, men are just naturally wired to be attracted to a curvy body. Attraction does not mean that he is enamored by every curvy body that he sees, but he will check it out. If a man tells you he he does not check out girls, then he is either lying so as not to hurt you or may be his sexuality isn’t inclined towards women. Any normal male will check out a female figure, if it’s very curvy then you can expect more gawking. The point to remember here is that this behavior is naturally wired inside him. In other words he is not even responsible for gawking at women – that’s just a subconscious biological response.

Men like to flirt – Any full blooded male is bound to flirt with a girl, whether he is married or not is secondary. He might either flirt overtly or subtly, but he does flirt. This is a very harmless behavior and most men just do it unconsciously. You might have noticed men driving their bikes fast just to impress girls – this is a form of flirting too. Staring at women and getting her to stare back at him is pretty natural habit most men have. They just get a kick out of being looked at by girls, more so after marriage. This does not mean he is not being loyal to you, he just does that subconsciously.

Men will look and deny because they feel guilty – Just because something comes naturally does not mean that we are okay with it. Most men do feel guilty about checking out other women when they are already in a committed relationship. Not all men are comfortable about their sexuality and hence feel bad about themselves when they flirt with a girl or just look her up. If you find him checking out another woman and ask him about it, he will deny it point blank. For one, he did it subconsciously and secondly he knows that it will hurt you if he accepts that he was checking out another woman. The safer route of course is to deny and that’s what they do.

I hope this answers why your husband looks at other women and denies it when asked. It helps to take this behavior playfully instead of getting serious about it. If he overtly flirts with other women, while in your company, then you have a valid reason to feel angry. If he is checking out another women just know that it is his manly nature to do so and let him be – try checking out a few men and get him jealous instead.

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