So how do you tell if a guy is flirting with you?
Most men are like open books. What they feel inside is what shows outside. So unless the guy has perfected the art of hiding his emotions and feelings, it’s quite easy to figure out what’s going on in his mind.
As a girl you can easily know if a guy is flirting by the way he is behaving. Signs men give when flirting are so open that it’s hard to miss.
In this article we speak of the six commons signs that indicate a man is flirting with you. Just remember some men flirt without any real intention but just for the fun of it, so don’t take it for anything else.
A man does not have to be infatuated with you to flirt. It’s also true that men flirt with girls that they find attractive either consciously or subconsciously.
Signs A Man Is Flirting
Here are six signs a guy is flirting with you. Guys who are very confident around girls will display these signs quite blatantly. There will also be guys who would be a lot more subtle in their approach.
Listed below are the signs men give when flirting.
1.) He Has a Flirty Smile On
If a guy is flirting with you he is bound to have his playboy smile on or there would be something slightly playful or mischievous in the way he grins at you.
Most guys know that they are being naughty when they flirt and it shows on their face either in the form of a toothy smile or a lopsided grin.
2.) His Eyes Are Groping
Men are highly visual creatures and they usually relate better to images than sounds.
If the reason he is flirting with you is because he is very attracted to your physical or facial beauty then you can see his eyes groping your face while he’s talking.
Most guys will not check out your body while talking to you, what they will focus on is your face – the eyes, the lips, the skin and also your hair.
If a guy is a competent flirt he will look deeply into your eyes while talking – if a guy does this you know you are dealing with someone who has perfected the art of flirting.
3.) He Does Some Playful Touching
Most guys are not as deft at playful touching the way girls are. With guys the touching would be quite obvious – what he will do mostly is touch your shoulder or arm on some pretext or other.
If he is really overt he might touch your thigh when he is sitting next to you while talking.
4.) He Closes In On Your Personal Space
This is an obvious sign that a man is flirting with you. He will close in on your personal space and might get really close to your face or body while he talks.
This is one of the definite ways to know a guy is flirting. If you don’t back off, he will take it that you are interested or okay with him flirting with you.
5.) He Compliments Your Looks
You know a guy is flirting with you if he makes references to your looks. He might talk about the dress you are wearing or pay you some compliments on your beauty.
It’s common for guys to say things like “you have a very pretty smile” or “you have the most amazing eyes”, while they are flirting with you.
They may not genuinely mean what they say but this is an obvious sign when guys are flirting.
6.) His Body Language is a Little Fidgety
If he is passing his hand through is hair constantly or moving his face or shoulders in an excited manner while talking to you the he is probably flirting with you. Men do get self conscious when they flirt and it shows in their body language.
Some guys even blush when they flirt. So just watch out if his body language is fidgety – that will give him away.
As you can see, the signs a man is flirting with you are pretty overt and in the face.
You don’t have to be observant to notice these signs, they just shout out their intention.
Flirting is harmless as long as it does not disturb you, if you are not okay with it just give him a cold shoulder and he will move off.