So you got into a fight with your boyfriend, now what? Fights like this do tend to happen in a relationship, but the question is, what to do now? Who will come forward and break the ice? Who will talk to the other person first asking for forgiveness after a fight?
If you take our advice, you can just forget about sitting down and pondering why the fight actually happened and who exactly is responsible. In any fight both the people involved are equally responsible.
So both of you have to take blame for this. The question now is; who is going to ask for forgiveness or break the silence?
Guys are Impatient
In most cases guys tend to be more impatient than girls. So your guy should give a sign to break the silence within a matter of a few days after the fight.
He might send along a ‘Hi’ or ‘I am sorry’ message. Act immediately and do not let this opportunity pass.
Your guy has accepted responsibility for something you both were equally responsible. Let go of the bad feelings and respond back. Say something like ‘I am sorry too‘ or ‘it was not your fault‘ or even better ‘let’s make sure this does not happen again.’
Respond at the First Opportunity
As mentioned before, guys are impatient. They simply cannot wait to break the silence and get together with you again. But be sure that you do not test their patience.
When they send along the first message asking for apologies, accept it and reply back. No matter what you feel it is important that you accept your boyfriend’s apologies.
This is because believe it or not, you are equally responsible for the fight as he is. So what is wrong with accepting his apologies and making up for the better?
If you reply to him at this moment the relationship will get back as strong as ever. Even stronger for that matter. You see, guys like women who are easy going and who can be kept happy with less effort. They do not like the high maintenance types.
So to keep the relationship working you got to do some compromises. Let go of the ego and act towards making the relationship work.
If you truly love your boyfriend then you should not let any opportunity to patch up pass. This is irrespective of how badly your boyfriend behaved with you. We are all human beings and things like this happen.
What if Your Boyfriend Does Not Get Back for a Long Time?
If your guy has not gotten back to you for a long time, say more than a week, it’s time to act up.
You got to make the first move and convey that you are sorry this time. There are chances when the male ego gets hurt so much that there is no way he will ever get back to you until you do. So in this case, if you truly love your boyfriend and want the relationship to get back on track, take the action. Send your boyfriend the message first.
Don’t Wait Too Long to Get Back After the Fight
It is important that you do not wait too long before you get back together with your boyfriend. Fights happen in all relationships, but they also make the relationships stronger. So take it as a positive sign and work towards coming together again. If you take too long now you could be loosing out on a relationship.
So now you know what to do after a fight with your boyfriend. What are you waiting for? Go ahead and work towards making things work for the better.