There might come a point in your relationship when you start wondering if your partner really loves you anymore the way he used to. You might also wonder if there was love to start with.
Thoughts like these might come up in the middle of the night or during a dull Sunday afternoon and they have the capacity to scare the daylights out of you or make you feel really uneasy.
What is important is that you don’t run away from these thoughts. When they arise, just take the time to figure out why you feel this way, what is the source or root of these thoughts?
This way you will know if there is any truth to them or if it’s just a fearful thought with no reality.
How Do I Know If My Boyfriend Really Loves Me?
If he really loves you it will be obvious in his behavior. What’s difficult to judge is if he is falling out of love with you.
Does my boyfriend love me, does he still care about me, does he love me less or more? What you need to figure out is the truth in these thoughts. Only a reality check can give you the truth.
In this article we suggest the signs to watch out for to determine if your boyfriend has fallen out of love with you.
Try to cross check if your boyfriend exhibits any signs that indicate he has lost interest.
Signs That He Is Falling Out of Love
Below are a few signs that suggest that he is falling out of love with you:
1.) He Doesn’t Care About Who You Go Out With
A little possessiveness is present in any guy who in love with his girl – even if he is really open-minded.
If you are going out with your friends, or if you are headed for an office party, your boyfriend is bound to ask you who will be there in your group.
He might even get a little jealous if he senses a possible flirt in your group.
If your boyfriend doesn’t love you anymore, he wouldn’t care where you go or who you go with. When he behaves this way, you can be sure that he is either too busy with his life or he just doesn’t care about you like before.
2.) He Rarely Calls Or Messages You
It’s possible that he is busy in his office, or may be he is stressed out in a hectic schedule, but if loves you he will miss you in spite of all the things going on in his mind.
If you don’t call him, he will call you just to know if you are okay. This is true only if you are not already living together.
If you see that your boyfriend hardly ever calls or messages you, and if he says he is too busy or tired to talk to you, it’s an indication that he has lost interest.
3.) There Is No Love Or Gentleness In His Voice When He Talks To You
What we feel in our heart usually shows up in the tone of our voice, especially when we are not trying to pretend.
In intimate relationships, there is no need to pretend so you can be assured that what’s in his heart will show through in his voice.
If he is very cold and distant while talking to you, it might indicate that he doesn’t feel love for you in his heart.
The question – does my boyfriend still love me? – might well arise when you intuitively sense the coldness in his voice. Your heart can sense love or distance with honesty, your mind might make excuses.
4.) He Is Not Interested In Physical Intimacy
By physical intimacy we don’t just mean sex – hugging, kissing or cuddling are all acts of loving intimacy.
If you see your boyfriend hardly ever hugs you or kisses you voluntarily, it might suggest that he is losing interest or falling out of love.
So to answer the question – you will have to look back upon his behavior and judge without bias. You will also need to get in touch with your deep intuition without fear. It’s better to face the truth than to live in a lie, but make sure you don’t jump to false conclusions.
Make sure you talk it out and express your feelings to your boyfriend before you conclude anything.