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Are guys generally trusting of their wives?

Guys are not very trusting in general.

The best relationships are the ones which are built on trust. We are not trusting because we have been burnt several times through the very thing called trust and it starts from childhood. Guys have been taught to not be too trusting since it might cause them to end up being gullible. No guy ever wanted to be gullible because that’s the worst ego bashing he can ever take.

Guys take an ego bashing very seriously

Whenever their trust is broken they come out being less trusting of others to protect themselves from future hurt. Most of the successful businesses are run by men who don’t even trust their brother or father for anything. They only trust themselves and that too when they are in a good mood. If you break a figment of trust once you can be sure that the guy would stop trusting you to a good extent even if it’s subconscious. A very hard fact to face but there it is.

Guys are very possessive

I guess it is true for all the male species in the animal kingdom. The male is very possessive of his female. In the animal kingdom usually there are fights to death when another male tries to invade on his territory. Some guys are almost paranoid about their wives having an extra marital affair. Don’t be surprised if you find him scanning through you personal mail, your sms, your files and mobile numbers every now and then on some pretext or other.

The last thing you want is a call from a guy friend of yours from the office around the middle of the night, that will set him off for sure.

Attraction is not bound by emotion for guys

The problem is that most of us guys are quite infidel in our minds, we find it easy to feel attracted to women around us because it is not bound by any emotion. Mostly the attraction would be physical more than anything else. There are lots of guys who picture an intimate scene in their minds whenever they see a sexy girl in front of them. It’s natural for them to feel that their wives might feel the same about other guys. Especially if a guy’s wife is beautiful and is leered and stared at everywhere she goes; he is going to live in perpetual nightmare of some guy having it off with his wife in his absence. There is no cure to this phobia. In fact most of the guys end up being wrecks when they have a very outgoing wife.

Stalking the wife, am serious

Some even reach the point of having a detective stalking his wife to ensure that she is not having an affair. I am not kidding you on this. You can be really comfortable in yourself knowing that you are loyal to your husband but it’s next to impossible to convince him of that fact. There is a joke about guys actually getting their wives pregnant so they don’t look so beautiful. The girl need not feel too offended by this attitude since it’s almost an ingrained mind state, but a lack of trust can be remedied with time by letting him know of how much you do love him.

What to do if you are stuck with an over possessive guy?

As I said all guys are possessive there is no exception to this rule. If a guy is over possessive it might infer that he has a deep seated complex about himself or an insecurity about his looks or manliness. These situations can’t be helped and usually there would be serious fights emerging out of the guy’s insecurity and girl’s lack of understanding of the same. It’s a pity but these relationships usually end up in a break off. You can never get a guy to trust you completely, but it is possible to get an almost complete trust which is great really and that can be achieved through consistent and genuine love. The guy though he thick skinned would usually get the point with time.