Do Guys Like Talking Over the Phone?

by: Admin

Communication is the key to successful relationships (irrespective of the medium). Be it email, phone, chat or a face-to-face conversation. For two like-minded souls making conversation through any medium can be extremely satisfying and an immensely bonding experience.

Creative Imagination

So yes, guys love talking over the phone. And it’s definitely a plus if a guy has good imagination, as a phone based conversation demands that. This is because in a phone conversation, you do not get to see the person and only have your imagination.

There are certain times when we as humans are full of positive energy and our imaginative/creative mind is at its peak. These are the times when a phone conversation ends up being intensely engaging. Who knows, both of you might end up sharing deep secrets that you might shy away from speaking about during a face-to-face conversation.

The Awkward Silence of Phone Conversations

One of the drawbacks of a phone coversation is the ‘awkward silence’. There is a lot pressure to have a conversation going else there is always an awkward silence to face which is not very comforting. The girl feels that the guy is not interested in talking and the guy is just sitting out there trying to search for something
to talk about or just wants to keep the phone down without sounding rude. This is especially true if the guy is not a very good conversation maker.

But in a face to face conversation, the silence is okay because you can just be with each other. This could be one of the reasons why some guys don’t like phone conversation as much as a real time meet.

Frequency of Phone Conversation

During the start of the relationship there are several hours of talk over phone for sure, that’s because the guy is more interested in ensuring the girl does not find him rude and initially that’s the only way to communicate if you are not dating much. When the relationship progresses the number of hours over the phone reduces.

This is not a bad thing at all. It just means that now there are better ways of communicating with each other (like hugging, kissing and talking face to face while you are in his arms for example). Some girls complain about the fact that their boyfriend does not talk over the phone as much as he used to before. Of course he is not and you don’t need to feel bad about it at all.