Want to know how to cheer up your boyfriend? A relationship is a medium for us to feel cared and loved for. There are ups and downs in everyone’s life. What we need is someone who we can share our joys with and also depend on for support during our lows. When we were children it’s our parents, siblings and friends we depended on for support, but once we have an intimate relationship with someone he/she becomes the pivot of our life.
As a girl, you will encounter several situations in the relationship with your boyfriend where he seeks your emotional support directly or indirectly. Male stress is a much talked about topic in medical circles. Men are highly prone to stress because of their tendency to compete or be aggressive. In today’s culture it’s easy to get stressed out for a multitude of reasons.
Ways to Cheering Up a Stressed Out Boyfriend
Men are usually stressed out due to performance related issues in their jobs, studies or finances, there are many other causes of stress too. Here are few tips on what you can do to cheer up your boyfriend when he is in the blues or stressed out.
Don’t Get Alarmed When He Is Stressed
Many girls get fearful or upset when they see their boyfriend in a bad mood. You need to give him support by staying cool and composed. Don’t make things worse by taking it personally. That last thing he wants when he is stressed is for you to pick a fight with him. Guys are pretty adept at handling their own problems, what he will appreciate though is your emotional support when he is feeling down. If you get upset whenever he tells you his problems, it won’t be long before he stops opening up to you.
Venture a Solution to His Problem
When you understand his problem, try venturing a solution that might work. You don’t have to give him a foolproof solution, just something which seems workable according to you. There is a possibility that he may not have considered a point view that you can. Even if he finds your solution non-feasible, he will appreciate your help and support. When you try to give a solution he will know that you are trying to help.
Give Him a Head Massage
He’ll really thank you for giving him a soothing head massage when he is feeling tensed. Scientifically, a massage helps improve the blood circulation and relaxes the mind per se. Physical touch can be very soothing especially when one is feeling really low because it shows there is someone who really cares.
Take Him Somewhere Relaxing
If he is feeling stressed out or down, you can take him to some place which is naturally relaxing. A beach, a hill top, a garden or lake, can be very soothing when one is feeling stressed out. You can drive your boyfriend down to one of these places and just sit with him there for a while. He will really appreciate your concern and help. Spending time in the natural surroundings usually helps people get relief from stress.
Let Him Know You Will Always Be There For Him
There is nothing more comforting to a human heart than unconditional love. If you are only there for him when he is happy and successful, and maintain your distance when he is feeling low, he won’t be able to trust your love completely. When you are committed to someone, it’s important to go the full distance. Come rain or hail, he should feel that your presence will always be there in his life. Just saying something heartfelt like – “Don’t worry, I am always there for you”, is all it takes to cheer anyone up.
These are some workable ways to cheer up your boyfriend, but the motivation should always grow out of genuine love and concern. It’s difficult to find true love these days where everyone’s only concerned about what one can get out of a relationship. But true love does exist and is seen manifest in many deep relationships. There is nothing quite as beautiful and soothing as the touch and compassion stemming out of genuine love. It has the power to sooth the most troubled mind.