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Why Won’t My Boyfriend Make Things Physical?
It’s quite a rarity for a guy to not get physical in a relationship because most guys are quite willing to jump into a girl’s pants at the drop of a hat. So to find a girl complaining about her boyfriend not wanting to get physical sticks out as a one off situation but not an entirely uncommon one.Let’s look at the many reasons why your boyfriend may be not getting physical with you.
He’s the shy type
It’s true of course that there are many guys who are on the shy side and find it difficult to take their relationship to the second level of physical intimacy especially when they are not sure of how their girlfriend would react to their advances. This can be quite irritating for the girl who is stuck bewildered by this behavior.
It’s helpful to be audacious and take the first step if you find your guy shying away from physical intimacy. Get close to him, flirt with him, throw in hints that you want to get physical. Don’t be too audacious though as it might unsettle him especially if he is not used to such advances.
Shy guys need to be treated with more understanding. Once they open up they become more comfortable and natural in their behavior, but initially they may tend to stay within their shell. If you want you “shy” type boyfriend to make things physical it’s incumbent upon you to take the first step in that direction.
He does not find you “sexually” attractive
Guys don’t look for a “glam” doll in their girlfriend, on the contrary most guys prefer a modest and classy girl compared to an extroverted, aggressive one. The problem is that if you come across as extremely modest, he might start having reservations about making sexual advances.
In an intimate relationship it’s important to expose the “sensual” side of your personality to your partner. All girls have a “sensual” aspect to their personality, many are quite shy about exposing it. When you trust your partner and you want to be sexually involved with him, open up with the sensual aspect of your nature.
If your boyfriend is not getting physical with you the chances are that he has not seen the sensual part of you yet. It’s all in the body language and they way you dress. A sensual perfume and a sexy hair style do help things as do eye liners and lipstick.
He finds you dominating
Are you the “dominating” partner in your relationship? Do you act bossy around your boyfriend? Some guys do find these qualities attractive but many are quite uncomfortable around a dominant girl even if they are attracted to her.
Try to be more feminine and bring in some conscious submissiveness. This change in your personality will help your boyfriend get closer to you as he will find you more “attractive”. Guys are deeply attracted to feminine characteristics like modesty, shyness and tenderness in girls.
You don’t have to change your personality, just make a few adjustments to help make your boyfriend feel more comfortable. Once you guys get close, he will be able to relate to you a lot better. Most guys like “independent” girls but they shy away from the domineering ones.
He is quite unsure of the relationship
It’s definitely a rarity but there are some guys who think twice before getting physical with a girl. These guys have a sense of loyalty and believe that getting physical will entail getting “committed”. May be he is not ready for a commitment as yet.
Once he is sure of his love for you he will be open to moving the relationship to the physical level. If this is really the case, you are quite lucky because you are with a guy who has certain principles pertaining to loyalty and commitment.
In conclusion, if your boyfriend is not getting physical with you, and you want him to, then it’s time to do some interrogation. Bond with him, get closer to him emotionally and develop a deeper trust, he will be willing to be more open with you once he feels more connected with you. There are many guys who are looking for a trustworthy, stable partner and are waiting to find one before they get physical, not all guys consider sex as the priority in a relationship.
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