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Why Are Men So Insensitive?

If you thought so far that men are insensitive then you are completely wrong. The fact is that men are sensitive but they do not express emotions like women. They repress their emotions. This is what the society teaches us to do. It teaches us that men are the stronger of the two sexes and hence men have to be emotionally strong. Being emotionally strong directly means that you repress emotions and do not express them freely as women do.

Men are not insensitive

Though men repress their emotions they are not insensitive. The only thing is that they do not show it outside. Most men are very much sensitive and believe it or not men are emotionally weaker sex of the two. This means men can get hurt much faster than a woman and not know how to deal with the situation. Because they cannot express their emotions and hurt easily they wallow in it all by themselves, taking out their sorrows by resorting to drugs and alcohol.

Men take to alcohol to release suppressed emotions

Why do you think men abuse alcohol more than women? 90% of men who drink, drink out of sorrow. They drink because they want to forget what is happening around them for a while. Men who are happy with their life and who have a healthy relationship going seldom take to abusive drinking. Abusive drinking involves drinking so much that the brain is no longer able to concentrate on a single thing. This way a man can become free from bent-up emotions that are eating him from within. Emotions that he wants to express but is not able to because he is a man and the society expects him to behave like one.

Men don't like to get sympathy

A woman in sorrow would love to get sympathy from her friends and relatives and in most cases she will get it too. But the case is different when it comes to men. Men hate sympathy. This hatred is a result of the image society implants in our heads. Because of this women can easily label a man as an insensitive person who simply does not care for others.

Men are emotionally weaker

In real terms men are the weaker sex. They are emotionally weak as compared to women. This is because men don't know how to handle emotions. The society never taught them how to handle emotions. This does not mean men are insensitive. This only means that men really don't have a clue how to behave in a sensitive situation.

What to do now?

First and foremost, you have to remove the thought from your mind that men are insensitive. Secondly if ever you feel that your man is being insensitive to your feelings, try to look at the world from his point of view. Don't think that he can never feel your emotions. He is very well aware of it. The only thing that is stopping him are those conditioned theories that the society has fed into his mind. So instead of blaming that men are insensitive, try to help them out. Try to help them sort their emotional issues. How you ask? By love and patience. Love your man forgetting his shortcomings and you will soon realize how beautiful a relationship can be.