Most of us have been in a situation where we like someone and are craving for them to ask us out! The the thing is, it can be difficult to get them to do it. If you have a feeling he likes you too, the easiest thing to do would be to take the lead and ask him out yourself.
Drop Subtle Hints
Although traditionally it is the guys who do the asking out, these days girls can initiate the first date too. But if you are really keen to get him to ask you out, you could always drop a few subtle hints. Pay him a compliment when you see him, smile a lot, perhaps mention a movie that you really want to see or spark up a conversation about a new bar or coffee shop.
Dropping hints that you like him might do the trick, however some guys may not even realize you are dropping hints even if they like you; in fact, if they like you, they may be feeling even more scared of possible rejection.
Make Him Feel Comfortable Around You
Remember to be yourself, he is much more likely to go for it if he feels comfortable around you and sees you as you are. Whenever you are around him, talk to him and be flirty, but not too much- keep it casual and easy going. Hopefully he will get the drift and feel more comfortable in asking you out once he suspects you are interested in him.
Why Not Ask Him Out?
There really isn’t much you can do that will guarantee that he will ask you out, but being nice, smiling and listening to him will make him feel that you think he’s a cool guy. The best thing to do is to take the matters into your own hands and suggest going for a drink together casually. This will also show him that you go after what you want and you are confident, a trait that is no doubt extremely attractive!
Remember that he will love being asked out by you! After all, he might be waiting for you to ask him out and someone has to make the first move! Even if he says no, you will have taken the big step and can gloat in having the guts to make a move on him. It’s better to take your chances and go for it than keep on waiting for him! You never know, it may be the start of something fantastic!